It was HBC FM when I had a talk with Mr. Pranay Shakya Wednesday, 7-8 pm. Dated 2063-9-25 the question was
How could you show that you are civilization?
The answer of the Suraj was as follow
Talk less listen more
Accept others opinion
To adjust with friends we don’t have to suppress our prestige; like going to drink in front of staffs; fighting with other in small reason
o Try to avoid what makes your reputation bad
Take care, about dress up because it plays the vital role in company, friends, relatives,
o If we are going to disco we mustn’t go in suit-pant
o If we are going at funeral ceremony we don’t use wedding dress
o It is raining outside and if we try to sell a cup of tea that will be in your hand
Try to be us
Don’t try to show your value in front of audience
Try not to give the description with the help of little knowledge
Try to fit with situation
o Talking about visa and debit card at remote and rural area that is useless
o Talking Japanese with British: though you are excellent in Japanese but it is not necessary that you must talk with him. In such cases you need a capacity of acceptance.
Sight talking at group discussion
Don’t try to make false belief.
Charming face when talking
Identifying before keeping opinion
Try to share strong reasons when you are in group
To be literacy doesn’t mean civilized
Tempo driver may civilized than doctor, officer,
Qualification is not the shape of civilization
Note: This is original words I have not edited. Though HBC F.M of Nepal is closed now.